Read Acts 15:22-41
“Key Verse: Acts 15:36 “After some time Paul said to Barnabas, “Let’s return to each city where we preciously preached the word of the Lord, to see how the new believers are getting along.” (NLT)
It seems that disagreements and even arguments were not uncommon among the early church. There was the big debate over the gentile Christians and now we see Paul and Barnabas disagreeing. Barnabas wanted to take John Mark with them to visit the cities where they had preached, while Paul dd not want to bring him because he had a bad experience with John Mark.
Whatever the disagreement was about is not really important. What is important is how the two handled the situation. It was okay to disagree with each other but they needed to handle it appropriately. They decided to agree to disagree on this issue and went their own separate ways.
It is not wrong to disagree with someone. It is not a sin to have a different opinion then someone else. Disagreements become sinful when we allow our tempers to get out of control or when we fail to use wisdom and end up saying things that are meant to hurt one another. God used Paul and Barnabas’ separating to allow both of them to go their different ways and do even more work for Jesus.
We need to learn from their examples and discover the importance of being able to walk away from a disagreement without destroying a friendship in the process.
Prayer: “Lord, please give me the wisdom I need to learn how to end all arguments appropriately and without saying or doing something I will regret. Help me to have Godly attitude in all disagreements.”